A Simple Truth of Bricks and Mortar


Please discourage breeding


I was raised in an era of winning or losing. The Parents were parents. They disciplined but rarely abused. There were a few screaming quarrels connected to my fathers alcoholism.  My mothers anger at seeing the man she wed slowly disintegrate before her. But in all, our family had  a  true moral compass and strength of character.I had, in all, a happy youth.

Parenting is giving…… It is three A.M. in the morning at the counter buying childrens cold medication,  as well as taxi service, cheerleader, doctor, counselor, cook, and maid are among the pro bono services a parent provides. It is a hard, ever-demanding job.

You can love your child, you can be close to your child, but…… You cannot be your child’s friend. Of all relationships the role of parent is special. It is a relationship that requires both the most tender and committed caring and times when you must harden your heart and discipline. When they are young children can be angelic little packages. But when they reach puberty, your sweet little angel  can morph  into an oppositional demon. Both these conditions can be easily fixed by giving in to the demands and bad  behaviors. Your children will love you and be your friend, (until you say no). “Do as I say not as I do” will not make it. Live a life with equal measures of love openly expressed and discipline founded in fairness and your children will grow strong and capable of coping with the vicissitudes of life

You are the manifesto; the mission statement and ten commandments for your offspring. This “I shot an arrow in the air, where it fell I know not where” falderal implies the product of parenthood is random chance. If this is the case why try? If no involvement at all is as good as intense attention to the needs of the child; why not just kick back and party on and let the little bastards take care of themselves!

Since the debacle of Lyndon Johnston’s “Great Society” was installed in the mid-sixties as the seed of the socialist state, the gradual deterioration of our culture, with the best of intensions, has coasted into a morass of subsidized poverty. Cash, and a legion of services are a dead-lock cinch. A cinch, in particular for liberal politicians, who want a solid semi-pro voting block in the poor of all culture, creed or color

As our little monsters leave to greet the world we  install a homunculus in each child.  It could be evil Snidely Whiplash doing bad things or the restraining force, you know, those Better Angels of our nature. Without the inner restraints, society will provide external restraints. In the form of jail time. Without these inner restaints, (guilt, shame, etc)  the spoiled male brat grows to a spoiled brat  who can  do real damage…….like robbing a business or shooting up a grade school. You can bark about gun control all day and confiscate them all. Estimations of the genocidal mass killing binge in Rwanda, range from a half million to a million. The main weapon used was the machete. More to the point the main weapon was the mind of the killer. The person most likely to take a  life will be a the product of defective rearing.   As the old computer geek learned a long time ago, GIGO, (GARBAGE IN, GARBAGE OUT).

Sigmund Freud once stated “Raise one generation right, and the worlds troubles would end”  if you want simple answers, there it is  . It would be nice to confiscate all firearms and thus end the problem. Yet this is a no more than a cardboard stalking horse, all show and no meat. Abe Lincolin was heard to say, “A house divided against itself cannot stand.” The walls, stacked one on another and bound with mortar, must hold fast or fall to pieces.





Is it real?


This video gives good insight into the problems with migrant males in Western Europe.  I am certain part of the sensitivities expressed by Berlin residents has been a strong reaction to new bodies in their space. There is a real problem, however, that will only escalate if there is not a large scale intervention on the part of German authorities.

Horrible production values in the video. But I was riveted by the first hand descriptions of concerned residents. 



Five Facts


PLEASE CLICK  THE PIK for information that has been deliberately excluded by the media. We have all seen the scenes in movies in which a bunch of hard bitten reporters sit around a big table, discussing the stories of the day. Such scenes depict the fourth estates triage  of facts they think you need to know. What’s the top story? What goes above the fold or what is buried on page A-6?.

Please keep the fact that Over 90% of those in attendance dress to the left. (The angle of the dangle), as you peruse the information enclosed.

Suspect in Murder of Boy ABC 7

In short, your conscious  picture of the world is being manipulated to further someone else’s political agenda. Klik it and arm yourself with knowledge.!















FROM THE ETHER, from whole cloth, the main stream media with Organizer Barak Obama, have incited the lynching of a randomly selected police officer.  It fit the script, white cop, black teenager, media gold!

Now  lies have been confessed to, and the grand jury, with a glut of exculpatory witnesses and ballistic evidence, failed to indict. That was over a week ago. Obama is still pontificating in passionate Elmer Gantry style, in a bid for mass revival of the Civil Rights Movement. Now, taking  it on the road,  Eric holder has started a second career out of race baiting and selective prosecution. “But guys! the crime your attacking has been proven to not exist”.

So the black community will continue drifting, rudderless, with no real hope of extinguish  the conflagration in their community. The solutions are there. Acceptance of personal responsibility for behavior and fidelity to the nuclear family would be good places to start. As a psychotherapists I have had many young black men sitting before me who had no idea that being a father was something more than buying cute little jogging outfits for the toddlers once in a blue moon. “Chris Rock,  the comedian, conjectured that if he had the job of reporting Ferguson police he would offer the query, “Why do you always shoot the black suspects?”

You mean it has never occurred to him that if you don’t break the law you won’t draw heat.  The entire black community amounts to 13% of the population. The black community has more bodies behind bars with 39% of the prison population as compared to whites who occupy 34% of Americas jail cells. the rate of criminal behavior prosecuted is times greater than the non-African American population.





A popular Saudi blogger has been charged with insulting Islam and been sentenced to ten years in prison and ten thousand lashes. The site itself is rather radicaly named “Saudi Arabian Liberals”. In fact he is running along the edge of the razor. The govt. has had him in their sights for a while. It will be interesting to follow this story and see if the the “House of Saud” can soften its view enough to reduce it’s harsh judgments.
What is most impressive about the situation is that this is the most dissent I have seen in the Muslim world. And it is originating from the very belly of the beast. How about the strangely silent American Muslims, and Muslims all over the world for that matter. Silence can only be interpreted as approval.