The playbook for Jihad includes a move for turning things around when you are caught doing what you do. When you are discovered under the train trestle, tying dynamite to the cross sections that hold the train-bridge together, you burst into tears at the bullying in  high school that got you to take such desperate action! The ultimate destination never ends with the personal responsibility train pulling into your station. with responsibility laid at your doorstep……. all guilt and all culpability go to the victim. The perpetrator, “poor dear”  is merely reacting defensively to an intolerable situation!