The thought of grown men getting together to go raping infidel women kicks back out of your brain a like an old dollar bill in a coke machine. It just never comes up in casual conversation. I do not mean to denigrate a peaceful religion. Spiritual beliefs are the glue that holds societies together in relative peace. Islam appears, however, to have not gotten the word on peaceful cohabitation and appropriate gratitude . But the mix of spirituality and violence  is endemic to Muslim gospel. The assumption of spiritual superiority to all other belief systems, and contempt for those that of differing beliefs  is a sure winner if your betting on having problems with relationships.